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Rabbi Shaya's Thoughts

You Are Not Forsaken

We hear this line often in our liturgy: “G-d has not forsaken the Jewish people.” Clearly this is true, as we are still here. However, we can ask, “Is this true for the Jewish nation and even for individual people?” Perhaps G-d might forsake an individual. After all, if we are running away from G-d, why should he chase us? Why not just give up on us?

When the Jews were in Egypt, many of them gave up on G-d; they assimilated into the Egyptian way of life. They had nothing to hold onto. Being a slave was not an attractive option, so they slipped into the comforts of Egypt.

On the Egyptian front, they were bombarded with plague after plague. Ten in total. Each time a plague would come, it did just that: it arrived.  

Yet by plague number ten, the death of the first born, Moses warned Pharaoh that G-d will “come to Egypt” and save the first-born Jews from the plague, while first-born Egyptians will die. The question is asked, “Why does G-d Himself have to ‘come’ to Egypt?” Every other plague arrived without G-d Himself “coming.” Even though this plague was put into action by the Angel of Death, why is G-d’s presence necessary? In addition, to save the first-born Jewish children, the Jews were given the cue: “Put the blood of the Pascal sacrifice on the doorpost as a sign for the angel to ‘pass over’ your home.” If that is the case, what will G-d be coming to do, anyway?

Tradition tells us that there were Jews hiding in Egyptians homes. Not only did they ignore Moses by not putting blood on their doorposts, they defied G-d! They went and lived within the homes of the Egyptians! They camouflaged themselves so well within Egypt that only G-d Himself could find them. 

This is what Moses was saying to Pharaoh: G-d does not forsake His people. Every single Jew will come out of Egypt!

Are there Jews who are hiding their Judaism? Yes. Do they deserve to be forsaken? No.

This is not just a phrase that we have lived with for so many years. This is true. This has been true then, and this is true today.

 

 

 

Equality

To wear black or not to wear black? When is a compliment appreciated and when is it harassment? Our world is walking on eggshells. How do we recognize people’s individuality, yet celebrate equality? When you address a couple, who do you list first? If you choose the husband before the wife, are you making a statement? If you choose the wife before the husband, are you making a statement? Can’t we just live our lives without tripping over ourselves?

Is this even a new phenomenon? In this week’s Torah portion, we see that G-d himself goes back and forth when addressing Moses (the younger brother but the leader) and Aaron (the older brother but the helper to Moses). Sometimes G-d addresses Moses before Aaron and sometimes Aaron is addressed before Moses. Is this because G-d is walking on “eggshells” and doesn’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings? Is G-d wishy-washy?

There must be a deeper message here. “Equality” doesn’t mean “the same.” Equal in value yet different in talent. Moses and Aaron were each celebrated for who they were, for their individual strengths, albeit not for the same ones. Yet, at the same time they each recognized within themselves that they were not perfect and that they each needed the other to fill in for the weaknesses that they possessed.  What they did focus on was who they were, and not who they weren’t. 

There are times when it is important to emphasize Moses‘s strengths over Aaron’s, and there are times to emphasize Aaron’s talents over Moses’s.  

Our approach to life must be sensitive, yet balanced. There are times when “Moses” comes first and there are times when “Aaron” comes first. 

The main thing is to see the positivity that everyone brings to the world we live in. 

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