With more than one hundred hostages still in captivity, we may start to wonder why G-d is ignoring our prayers. Jews around the world are concerned about the hostages—they pray for their release daily and do Mitzvot on their behalf, but there is no answer. As a Jews who pray to G-d, we might start to wonder if G-d is even listening.
Let’s take a closer look at the idea of prayer. Why do we pray and how do we pray?
This week’s Torah portion of Va’etchanan starts by telling us how Moses prayed to G-d for permission to enter the Holy Land of Israel. After all, he led the Jews for forty years, so why should he be denied the prize?
The sages tell us that Moses prayed more than five hundred times, meaning that he used that number of pleas to G-d. He must have beseeched G-d from every angle, and he was not granted his one request.
To appreciate what Moses was trying to accomplish, it is worth looking at the etymology of the word that the Torah uses to express Moses’s prayer, Va’etchanan. This word can be understood mean Chinun, or Techina, i.e. praying, beseeching or demanding. Or it can come from the word Chinam. “free”.
Moses’s prayer took a two-pronged approach: Either answer my prayer because I deserve it, or give it to me for free.
Let’s unpack this idea.
When we pray, we usually ask for something because we feel we deserve it. We want our hostages free. We want this person to be healed, and so on. However, if we believe that everything is in G-d’s hands, maybe we should just accept the outcome of our prayers and just say that this is G-d’s plan.
That is why there is another approach. We call out to G-d and say, give it to us for free, as a gift. We are ready to admit that we might not be worthy of the blessings, but that does not mean that G-d shouldn’t grant us our request “just because” we asked for it. After all, G-d is the Almighty and He can accomplish whatever He wants, whether we are deserving or not.
Here lies the power of prayer.
Prayer, on a deeper level, expresses the idea that we comprehend that everything is in G-d’s hands. With prayer, we are letting Him know what we need and want. We are also ready to acknowledge that we might not deserve what we are asking for; nevertheless, by recognizing that G-d is G-d. we are letting Him know that He can do as He wishes, just because.
With prayers that our requests should be fulfilled for the good.