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Why Did the Maccabees Fight?

As Chanukah approaches, we busy ourselves with preparing the Menorah, the dreidel, and the parties, and the joy that comes along with them. However, it is worth taking a few minutes to ponder what motivated the Maccabees to risk their lives to fight the Hellenists. 

 

The Maccabees’ lives were not in danger. They were permitted to practice almost all of the mitzvot – even though a few laws were forbidden, such as circumcision. They were even permitted to learn Torah! Well, they were not allowed to say the blessing before they learned, but how bad is that? Could they not endure such a comfortable life under Greek rule that it is was worth putting their lives at risk, just because they suffered some “inconveniences” regarding the nuance of the law?  

To strengthen the question: According to Jewish law, we can only put our life at risk if we are challenged to disobey any of the three cardinal sins: idolatry, adultery, or murder. None of these were being forced upon the Jews. This begs the question, why, from a Halachic perspective, would the Maccabees put their lives in danger? 

 

The Maccabees saw a bigger picture. They recognized that the fabric of the Jewish people was coming apart at the seams—Jews were assimilating into Greek culture. They didn’t have time to worry about the nitty-gritty of the law. Correctly and according to Greek law, they could have sat in the comfort of their homes and under their palm trees and just concerned themselves with their own needs, and when Greek soldiers came around, they could have pulled out their dreidels and started playing so that they would not be caught teaching Torah to the children, the way it should be taught. Yet that was not who they were. They were warriors! They were leaders! They put the community’s needs before their own. When they noticed that the Jewish community was “slipping” into the Greek way of life, they said, “We have to do something about this. We must bring Judaism back into the center of people’s lives.” 

Interestingly, G-d recognizes this and performs a miracle with oil – making one day’s worth of oil last eight days – to teach the Jewish people that by adding a little light into their lives they can transform their world and make it into a holy place. They can rid themselves of the Greek influence and reconnect with G-d. 

 

This message applies to our generation as much as it did to theirs. We, too, are distracted by our culture and can slip into our surroundings and get confused as to what it means to be a Jew, to be able to define to ourselves what Judaism means to us and to our family and community. But on Chanukah, when we kindle a light, we remind ourselves that we have what it takes to stand up to the forces of the world that try to silence us, and we tell them that we will always be a light unto the world.  

Nothing can stop us! 

Happy Chanukah 

 

Every Small step Counts

We find something very interesting in this week’s Torah portion. When the Torah recalls the wives whom Esau married, one of them is named “Basmat.” The commentators point out that she is the same woman as “Machalat,” daughter of Yishmoel, who was mentioned two weeks ago. Basmat is her real name, but, we wonder, why was she referred to earlier as Machalat? Perhaps because Machalat means “forgiveness” and on the day of one’s wedding, a bride and groom are forgiven of their sins. 

If you recall, two weeks ago I wrote about the lack of sincerity on the part of Esau upon his marriage to Basmat/Machalat, yet it is from this marriage that the Midrash teaches that when anyone gets married they are forgiven from all their sins, just as Esau was! Wow.
 
How can we learn from such an insincere marriage that all marriages start with a clean slate?
 
By learning the whole Midrash, we will garner a deeper meaning.
The Midrash goes on to tell us that there are three times in one’s life when they can start anew (in addition to every year on Yom Kippur):
1.      When someone converts to Judaism
2.      When someone is appointed to a position of greatness
3.      On the day of one’s marriage
What are the common denominators between these three seemingly random situations? The outcome of all three will result in growth:
1.      In one’s connection to G-d, through the performance of Mitzvot
2.      Through making an impact in this world
3.      Through having children and performing Mitzvot in the home that you build together as a couple
 
Looking at it this way, it doesn’t really matter that Esau wasn’t sincere. Of course it would be more meaningful if he were sincere but the main thing is that he is doing the best that he can.
 
This is the lesson that all of us can glean even from a person like Esau. We might not be perfect, but that doesn’t mean that our “small” contributions to society are meaningless just because they are not “perfect.” We should try to do our best, and so long as we try and the results are there – even if they are imperfect – we know that we have done our part.

Location. Location. Location.

 When it comes to choosing a place to live or a place to open a business, it is all about location. 

Why? 

Well, in business, if your retail shop is in a poorly located, even if you have very attractive goods but nobody knows about them, you will not sell anything. However, why does it really matter where you live? A house is a house. Why does the neighborhood matter? If you have children in public school then you can argue that you want certain services. However, if you are sending your kids to Jewish Day School, then does it matter in which community you live? So long as you can get them to school, you are good to live in any house you choose. 

We can expand the question to colleges. If a university student is going to learn and earn a degree, does it matter if there is “Jewish life” on campus? 

How about if one is figuring out what job to take? 

Lately there have been articles published about how people are fleeing the big cities (NY, LA, DC) and moving to smaller cities around the country (Charlotte, Austin, Columbus). Should Jews leave the infrastructure of Jewish life, Jewish community, etc., just so that they can live a more “comfortable life” where the Jewish community is less established? Should the Jewish community be a deciding factor in our decision-making?

In addition to the broader benefits that one might get from living in a community that has the amenities one might need, there is also a spiritual factor that one should take into consideration.  

This week’s Torah portion starts with the words, “And Jacob went out from Be’er Sheva and went toward Charan.” The commentators point out that it should read he went toward first, not he went out from first. This teaches us that his leaving town left behind a void—even though his parents, righteous people as well, were still in town. A city or town with righteous people living in it is a blessing for all its inhabitants, and when they leave, those blessings leave with them. Hence the void.

Jacob was running for his life from his brother, Esau, so he had no choice. Wherever he went he had to build a Jewish life there. It wasn’t easy for him and eventually he went back home, but that is for another discussion. The focus here is on the town that he left behind. 

This spiritual factor is, at times, hard to notice. How Jewish a community is might be hard to measure. Even in our personal lives we might not be sure how involved we want to be in our own Jewishness, but that doesn’t negate the fact that our “location” will have an effect on our lives. 

Let’s translate this verse with a Chasidic twist: By looking at the meaning behind the words of the verse, we can glimpse a deeper message hidden within the story. “Jacob” represents the Jewish people, so Jacob becomes the “soul” of the Jewish people and “Be’er Sheva” – the city with seven wells – represents the wellspring of life, or “heaven.” It follows that our souls descend from the highest place in heaven and enter into the town of “Charan,” representing the difficulties of this world, the challenges of day-to-day life. The distraction of our soul, the “Charan” of the world, makes us forget from where our soul came. How do we stay connected? By living in “Be’er Sheva,” by deciding to live in a Jewish community.

So does location matter? Absolutely! Does it matter which college a kid chooses? 100%! Does my neighborhood matter? Of course! 

If we think in terms of “Be’er Sheva” vs. “Charan,” we can think about what is best for our souls, not only what is best for us.

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