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Rabbi Shaya's Thoughts

Mergers & Acquisitions

Historically, mergers and acquisitions don’t work out. One reason that an M&A may not work out could be the motivation for the merger. At times, a large corporation, or personality, forces the merger. This could be seen as a hostile takeover, where the cultures don’t mesh, let alone both corporations’ strategic planning. Other times, it could be that a third party sees potential in acquiring a few companies, but doesn’t consider the human element.

If it is so complicated, how can it ever work out? What does the Torah have to say on the matter?

In the first verse of this week’s Torah portion, Vayigash, we read about the meeting between Joseph and Judah—a very tense meeting to say the least. The commentators point out that later on the split of the Jewish people into two kingdoms of the Jewish people—Israel and Judah—came from these two men.

The Haftorah for the week discusses what will happen in the future: The two kingdoms of the Jewish people will be united.

Unity comes when each side honestly recognizes that benefit of the other: what each side is bringing to the table, and how they need each other.

A successful merger is not when one swallows the other, but when each company brings out the best in the other.  

In our own lives, we, too, need to be honest with ourselves. That is, when we admit that we are not perfect on our own and we gain when another person enters our lives and helps us change that.

It is important to recognize how we need the other person to reveal within us our inner power. When we see that we not only benefit from the other person but how we need the other person in our life, we come to not only respect, but admire them. We become in awe of how our lives are so much brighter because of it.

This is what the Torah is teaching us. We can be successful at the macro and micro level with every M&A.

Shabbat Shalom

A Little Light

Chanukah is a time that brings us happiness and joy. Yet, this past week our Jewish world has faced tragedies – that is in the plural. Too many innocent lives have been cut short by terrorists in Sydney, Australia. Intentionally, during a Chanukah celebration.

As a broad and united community, we ask two resounding questions: Why? How can G-d allow this to happen!?

We might never be able to answer the questions. However, we can and should look into the holy words of the Torah for strength and encouragement.

In this week’s Torah portion we read a similar story, the story of Joseph and his brothers. Joseph has already become a vizier in Egypt and his brothers arrive in Egypt to buy food. Joseph, in an official capacity, tells his brothers that he will hold Shimon captive until they bring their youngest brother, Benjamin, back to Egypt with them. They approach Joseph to defend themselves against his actions. (At this point they don’t know that Joseph is their brother). While in Joseph’s presence, they argue amongst themselves as to what caused this tragedy to befall them. The brothers say, “Perhaps it is payback for what we have done to our brother Joseph, that we sold him as a slave, and now G-d is punishing us.” The result of this way of thinking was that they repented for their sin of selling Joseph into slavery and eventually circumstances turned, and it all worked out.

If we analyze this event in the Torah, we see that the tragedy in and of itself is terrible. The brothers had a choice as to how to respond: Should they blame others for their predicament or learn a lesson for themselves? They chose to do some soul searching. In this case, they felt that they might have been guilty, so they repented. However, even though not every time tragedy strikes are those involved guilty, a lesson can always be learned.

We are in the midst of the holiday of Chanukah. Chanukah is a time when we bring light into the world. Yes, it is true that with the loss of the fifteen beautiful souls the world became a much darker place, but the choice is ours: Do we add even more light to fight that darkness, or do we allow the darkness to permeate our lives?

If there is a lesson to take from the Torah portion and Chanukah it is this: The choice is ours. How do we want to see the world, through the prism of light or the prism of darkness? Do we want to do something to bring more light into the world by lighting the Chanukah candles, even through our tears? Or do we just give up hope?

My vote is to go along with the “tribes of Israel.” Look at the good, take stock of our lives, and become a Maccabee! Add some light! Do an extra Mitzvah in memory of the victims.

May we only know of happy occasions and many more Simchot in our community!

Shabbat Shalom and Happy Chanukah

Finding Light in the Kiln: The Secret of Transformation

There is a story told about the Alter Rebbe, Rabbi Shneur Zalman of Liadi, the founder of the Chabad movement, who was arrested in Russia on the charge of “teaching Judaism to the masses.” While being transported to prison, a journey that took a few days, Shabbat arrived. Since it is forbidden to travel on Shabbat, the Alter rebbe asked the guards to stop on the side of the road for the duration of Shabbat. Refusing his request, they continued to travel. Suddenly, one of the wagon wheels fell off. After it was repaired, another wheel fell off. Then another. Finally, his guards realized they were not dealing with a simple Jew, and they agreed to camp on the side of the road for the length of Shabbat.

This story is as puzzling as it is fascinating. If the Rebbe was able to perform miracles to get what he wanted, why didn’t he perform a miracle that would allow him to return home? Why did he allow himself to be taken prisoner?

We find this story genre parallel in this week’s Torah portion, Vayeishev. We read that Joseph went down to Egypt. The Hebrew term used to express this descent into Egypt is “hurad.” The Midrash notes that the root of this word is connected to the word that means a kiln. Joseph descended into a kiln; just as a piece of pottery is placed into intense fire and emerges complete, so too was Joseph’s descent into Egypt. Although it began with hardship, it ended in greatness.

Joseph’s story is the story of our lives. Things can seem incredibly challenging at first. With time and effort, we can not only emerge stronger, but eventually recognize that the reward came because of the difficulty itself.

Joseph understood this. Later, Jacob understood this. And throughout the ages, Jews have come to experience this truth many times over.

The Alter Rebbe took this lesson a step further. He understood that not everyone facing a challenge can perform a miracle and stop their troubles. Yet he, who could have saved himself, chose not to—because he appreciated that there is value in going through the process. Not only because it ends well, but because the good is found in the beginning as well. In other words, he recognized that the reward would come not because of the difficulty, but within the difficulty itself.

This week, we celebrated the 19th of Kislev, the anniversary of his release from imprisonment. He taught us that not only can the bad turn into good, but that we must find the good within the bad. There is always a deeper layer waiting to be uncovered.

Let’s go uncover the good.

Finding the Divine in the details

Does G-d really care about every detail of our lives? 

It is easy to believe, and to reason, that even if G-d created the world, He doesn’t pay much attention to our everyday lives. To say that He is constantly involved in every detail of our lives can seem like a stretch.

Yet, in our daily prayers we say that G-d, “recreates the world every moment of every day,” meaning that G-d is involved in the day-to-day of our lives.

This idea is expressed in many places of the Torah; we will explore one example that is found in this week’s Torah portion of Vayishlach

We learn that “Jacob was left alone, and a man wrestled with him until the break of dawn. When he saw that he could not prevail against him, he touched the socket of his hip, and the socket of Jacob's hip became dislocated as he wrestled with him.”  The chapter concludes with this direction: “Therefore, the children of Israel may not eat the gid hanasheh, displaced tendon, which is on the socket of the hip, until this day, for he touched the socket of Jacob's hip, in the hip sinew.”

Interesting!

The struggle had so many details; the story spans nine verses, and it just tells us the highlights of an all-night affair, yet, this is the takeaway?  Why is it so important that we don’t eat the gid hanasheh, the sciatic nerve (otherwise translated as the sinew of the thigh), until today?

To take this question further, If the injury was on one hip, why do we refrain from eating from both hips?

Clearly there is a deeper message here.

The Torah is teaching us that everything that happens in life is for a reason, even Jacob’s injury. When we don’t eat the sciatic nerve, we demonstrate our acknowledgement of the Divine’s involvement in every detail of our lives as well.

This is not just symbolic; this act becomes meaningful.

The lesson for us is that yes, G-d does care about everything that happens to us. In fact, He even orchestrates it. It is our job to find the meaning and lesson from each event in our life. All that we have to do is to learn how to pay attention, and we will be able to see G-d’s hand in our day-to-day living.

This is easier said than done, but give it a try, and tune in to your life.

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